Zach's got this one.  Sure would be cool to see you M.  We Teens have personal experience with two places near the airport, but there's also the Durham option, close to the venue--let us look into this.

OK the Omni is now the Marriott Durham Civic Center--it is laughably close to the theater, as F says and as this map shows.  It got strong reviews on TripAdvisor, and TripAdvisor is harsh--they hate everything.  I think that is what Andie and I will do.  Any good Durham hotel is going to have either a shuttle to the RDU airport or can get a cab for you, and it's not a long trip at all, so that shouldn't be an issue.  I think being very close to the venue will be a big plus given that it will probably be a late night.  Here's a map of both the theater (on West Morgan) and the hotel (on Foster). 

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